How do i get romance back into my marriage?
Me and my wife have been married for 13 months. im 21 and shes 20 shes almost 5 months pregnant and the romance is gone. i wait on her hand and foot i message her feet and tell her how beautiful she is everyday and still nothing. i do everything in my power please help me.
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Tags: 5 months, discussion, Everything, Foot, hand, Message, nothing, Post, Power, Romance, Wife
March 7, 2010 @ 6:13 am
Some womens sex drive goes down while pregnant*.. You cant blame her..
March 7, 2010 @ 6:42 am
Buy This book “The Five Love Languages” by Gary Chapman. It will change your life.
John
March 7, 2010 @ 7:33 am
the spark is gone after 13 months and she’s pregnant?
No matter what you say if this is her first baby she feels anything BUT beautiful. Massaging her feet isn’t enough… listen to what she craves, there’s a lot of tension in her shoulders and back… get her a chick flick she hasn’t seen yet, the baby can hear you… show her you’re interested in what she’s going through… talk to the baby.
Of course, don’t over do it. Pick something and try it out. Rub her shoulders while watching a movie together, I know I couldn’t get enough of that while I was pregnant. Giver her a full body massage with a lightly scented lotion, Lavender is great for stress relief, and if you get the baby lotion you can use it for the little one when s/he arrives.
And remember… intimacy is more than just sex. Talk to her!
March 7, 2010 @ 8:21 am
Send her a sexy text message during the day about what you are going to do to her when you come home and make it graphic. This will create anticipation and get her thinking about sex and her imagination going and help get her in the mood.
March 7, 2010 @ 8:40 am
You are romancing her already by being so attentive to her needs when she isn’t herself. Believe me, this will pass. Patience is key and keep loving her. Take her out on dates, as there won’t be time for that after the child is born. A weekly, unbreakable date for just the two of you should be a ritual that allows you two to connect on a deeper emotional level. Even if it is just a candlelight dinner for two, where she does no cooking. Have it catered or order takeout without her knowing what is going on. Surprise her with love notes telling her how much you love her , respect and cherish her.
March 7, 2010 @ 9:23 am
A foot massage would do it for me ~ lol.
Be patient while she is pregnant. She may not feel attractive or feel that you find her attractive with her ‘bump.’ Just keep on doing what you are doing. You are being very attentive.
I hope all goes well with the baby and congratulations dad-to-be. : )
March 7, 2010 @ 9:27 am
Guy, if the romance is already gone after 13 months, this marriage is in crash mode.
BUT you guys can still go out on dates, candlelight dinners. What are you going to do after the baby’s born?? There won’t be any romance for the first 3 – 6 months after that!!
March 7, 2010 @ 10:08 am
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