Comments on: What Do You Think Is The Biggest Killer Of Intimacy For Couples?

By: pita

pita — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:52:59 +0000

sex to quick

By: Suzy Q

Suzy Q — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:52:59 +0000

life in general we werent meant to be with just one.. so i would say life in general day after day night after night omg .. please?

By: ?

Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:52:59 +0000

having sex too early

By: redjjo

redjjo — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:52:59 +0000

50 years and 3 marriages taught me that ts communication. (Fortunately I got it right the third time and we communicate.)

By: gms9810

gms9810 — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:52:59 +0000

ppl trying to hard instead of letting things just flow

By: Nee-Nee J

Nee-Nee J — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:52:59 +0000

“Being unfaithful”

By: angels

angels — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:52:59 +0000

when life gets in the way, and you ‘dont have energy’ to be intimate. You need to make time for each other and not take each other for granted. So therefore i think the key is communication.
And effort. One spouse can’t be the one initiating all the time.
Christina Aguilera and her hubby have ‘naked sundays’ (saw it on the Ellen show the other day!). I’m sure that keeps things spicey.

By: Chrissy

Chrissy — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:52:59 +0000

Children. Especially if your spouse won’t allow a babysitter for adult time in the relationship and says that is selfish to want adult time.

By: Spider

Spider — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:52:59 +0000

that’s EASY – KIDS!
and NOT having a LOCK on the bedroom door.
;P

By: Harleigh

Harleigh — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:52:59 +0000

Was there really emotional intimacy to begin with?
ie, not “hoping” it will change or get better.

By: Ade

Ade — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:52:59 +0000

I love my kids but I would have to say children!

By: lolita

lolita — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:52:59 +0000

We let the everyday things in life over come us. We need to sit down and open the bible and read what jesus says and wants between a man and a woman. If we would all do that, i think there would be less divorces. You need to read the book called “The Pupose Driven Life”. I wish me and my ex would of read it, because now it’s the children suffering.. I’m divorced and it takes alot out of someone..

By: take-it

take-it — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:52:59 +0000

Lies…

By: MaryBeth

MaryBeth — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:52:59 +0000

A television in the bedroom.

By: clubchao

clubchao — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:52:59 +0000

There is no single reason for the lack of intimacy—it disappears after a couple starts finding out that real life is hard, money is tight, and pressure and stress can strain a relationship. You need to realize that billions of couples go through this–you are not alone. Now, lets start with the lack of communications—too busy to even have a few minutes of relaxing talk and see how each other is doing. You need a quiet talk time–EVERYDAY—no outside interference–just talk. Humor is also something that helps keep the sanity–put on a funny movie or have a joke of the day. Men and women should share housework—help each other get it done–leaves time to relax together. Take time to stay well groomed and try to eat healthy—not fast food all the time. Eat good food and take a vitamin pill–it’s a fact about nutrition and well being having a connection. Take a ride to just a nice easy place for a cup of coffee–ALONE. Compliment your mate–and mean what you say.Leave work at work—leave home at home–and never go to bed mad. Fights are a loss of control–remain calm, be cool, be nice and smile at each other. Don’t say mean stuff–and don’t yell and scream. Talk like adults. All this stuff should help keep a hot relationship going. Good luck

By: fire_inu

fire_inu — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:52:59 +0000

Probably starting to feel like you’re relatives more than lovers as you deal with all the mundane ordinary aspects of running a household and family, i.e. chores, paying bills. Marriage turns lovers into relatives is a bumper sticker I saw once.

By: rebecca h

rebecca h — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:52:59 +0000

I believe that we take the people and the days of our lives for-granted! I have three children and we are raising a nephew! Trust me it’s not the kids! It’s the relationship is under appreciated! Be thankful for your partner and remember how much you mean to each other! One day hopefully after a life time together and maybe not, they won’t be there! Enjoy today and fell sexy!

By: Michelle P

Michelle P — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:52:59 +0000

children….ha ha ha

By: Cheryl

Cheryl — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:52:59 +0000

When a man doesn’t take his socks off!

By: Blondie

Blondie — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:52:59 +0000

Not being able to trust one another…

By: Chech~A~

Chech~A~ — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:52:59 +0000

Personaly I’d say the Bitching and Moaning.

By: slider15

slider15 — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:52:59 +0000

Baby & Bills …

By: me too

me too — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:52:59 +0000

KIDS change EVERYTHING

By: sxyredld

sxyredld — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:52:59 +0000

poor communication

By: Izetriye

Izetriye — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:52:59 +0000

Refusal to perform oral sex.