What Are Some Best Ways To Stay Wet During Sex?
Ok, so me and my fiance love having sex together, and it feels great! However, it is difficult for me to stay wet during it and i can never come nor have an orgasim. what are some things that me and him can both do? p.s. is it bad to have sex in the shower?
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Tags: Best, During, Fiance, Love, orgasim, Sex & Eroticism, sex in the shower, Some, Stay, Ways
July 10, 2009 @ 5:07 pm
Sex in the shower is not dangerous and can be so much fun.
About you getting wet, well you need some foreplay to get you in the mood, and a good lubricant (search for ‘healthy sex lubricant’ on google and find a good one and get it)
Also, here’s my fave sex guide book if it helps:http://eliydallas.blogspot.com/
best of luck and congrats for your wedding,
Cookie
July 10, 2009 @ 5:07 pm
First off, a common problem w/ couples is a lack of communication during sex. There is no reason why you shouldn’t have an orgasm during sex unless you have a medical problem. The other suggestions of using a silicone based lubricant are correct. They tend to last longer. You may also want to incorporate a vibrator into your routine. Your partner can use it on your clitoris which may help you orgasm. You didn’t give us much info as to your sexual routine, so I strongly suggest you find some help into that area. There are a million websites that aren’t porn, they actually help. (Right down to step by step “How To”.
By the way, sex in the shower rocks but you better have a big shower. Otherwise the positions get awkward. The silicone based lube also works great in the shower because water will wash away your natural lubrication.
Communication, Education, and Patience are the keys to a strong sexual relationship.
July 10, 2009 @ 5:07 pm
Ok here is the deal one of you guys are doing something wrong i have never come across a women i couldn’t make orgasm so here are some tip i have for you and your boyfriend.
1. first you cant be nervous and to help this try not planing it. just do it when the feeling strikes you.
2. try foreplay on him first then have him reciprocate this way he gets his first secretion out of the way and while he works on you he can get ready for round to and this way you will get two sessions of constant stimulation foreplay and sex.
3. get some “for her pleasure lube” and apply right before sex.
4. talk to him during sex give him hints that hes doing the right thing when it feels best to you. try these and let me know if they work if they don’t i have a few other suggestions.
July 10, 2009 @ 5:07 pm
sex in shower is awsome
you can try using a silcone based lubricant.
make sure your really wet before he inserts his penis if your not try more forplay.
when you start getting dry make him stimulate your clit with his fingers to get you wet agin then try putting it in again, if your staying excited and sexually aroused you should stay wet:) hope this helps
July 10, 2009 @ 5:07 pm
This is a personal matter that I don’t anyone on yahoo answers can answer successfully – make an appointment with the two of you at your doctor’s and discuss the problem with a trained medical professional – there are even doctors who specialize in sex and sex therapy (what a job!) just find a doctor that works for you!
July 10, 2009 @ 5:07 pm
Sex in the shower is fine and can really be a lot of fun.
As to the other question. Purchase a good lubricant. Sometimes especially if it goes a long time the body just does not keep up with the demand.
July 10, 2009 @ 5:07 pm
He can actually go down on you and come back up, or you can play with yourself while you to are having sex.
Alternatives, use KY, he can spit on it, etc.
July 10, 2009 @ 5:07 pm
yes all these people have good points but what they didn’t mention is dat u can try to fantasize about things like idk. whatever turns u on.
July 10, 2009 @ 5:07 pm
Rub on your cl!t, that will keep you wet my dear, and probably get you off as well!
Or try some lube if that doesn’t work for ya!
July 10, 2009 @ 5:07 pm
your not staying aroused enough and if you cant have an orgasm its his fault not yours.
July 10, 2009 @ 5:07 pm
use some lube or during sex do some foreplay
July 10, 2009 @ 5:07 pm
lube!! durex do a good one…and no sex in the shower is very good!! have fun