Is Sex With Black Men That Much Diffrent Than Others Or Is It Just A Hype?
I am in my mid 30’s and been hearing that sex with black men is so much better than other races, i wanted to know if there is any truth to that. I am not saying in any shape or form that sex with all other races is bad or less erotic, what i want to know is that if any one like me was curiouse and tried it? What was their experience? I am thinking that it is a hype! But i like to be sure!
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June 30, 2009 @ 6:12 am
It’s mostly hype. Men are men and a man being good in bed goes way beyond his skin color. So many factors determine how and why we are attracted to a person, that it’s impossible to say. Some women might feel this way while others might feel the opposite or feel neutral.
Every human being has qualities they find attractive. Being turned on can make sex even better. So if you happen to find a black guy who is handsome, sweet and sensitive to a woman’s needs and otherwise a good match for you then YES, sex could very well be great! Just like in any other group though, good and bad men exist and so do good and bad lovers!
I have dated men of all races and found it just depends on the person! Some people you will get along with, others you won’t. I do happen to find many black men physically attractive but as for the sex and the relationship, again it just depends on the guy! Beautiful men come in all colors and so do sexy ones!
As for ME, I have had some good experiences with black men and some not so good when it comes to sex. I DO tend to find black men beautiful (and black people in general) and I will always love looking at them. Here are some of the qualities I liked about the particular black men I have dated. This is not a stereotype and doesn’t apply to all black men, it’s just the things I have encountered:
1) The bodies. It’s no secret. Many black men have nice, strong looking bodies. This can be a huge turn on. Not all are like this but a good number are, even if they don’t work out! They tend to have broad shoulders, arched lower backs and high rounded butts too….Mmmm….
2) They like to flirt. When a woman drops a hint that she is into a guy, black men pick up on it right away. Sometimes Latin and Italian men are this way too for whatever reason. Some white men miss subtle hints, black men almost ALWAYS ‘get it’ when a lady is into them and if they are interested too, they are quick to respond. I have not met many black men who play games. If they like a woman they are pretty direct about it and not shy about asking her out!
3) Good grooming habits. I never dated a nasty, smelly black guy. I am sure they exist but it’s rare. Notice something: Both rich and poor black guys are usually into their appearance to some degree. They are meticulous about their hair, their clothing and cleanliness. I am not sure why this is, it’s just something I have noticed in the ones I dated.
4) Black people are beautiful. It’s s sad that so many black celebrities bleach and butcher their natural beauty to look more ‘white’ because most were beautiful to begin with! Many have beautiful broad, flat noses, full soft lips, curly hair and silky-smooth brown skin. This is what a person of African descent is SUPPOSED to look like! It’s a shame so many (male and female) don’t understand how striking their natural beauty is and how many white people happen to think so! If you are someone who happens to think black is beautiful then you may very well find you enjoy sex with them more!
So if you are curious, why not date a black guy? The only way to know for sure is to try. Lots of women are into black men so there must be a reason! Best of luck and Happy Hunting!
June 30, 2009 @ 6:12 am
They say that Black men is so much better or whatever because there is some truth that Black men have…”bigger packages”. I wouldn’t know because I’m still a virgin and never had sex before with anyone.
But that is what I’ve always heard and Black men can get kinky or do experimental things when having sex, but anyone could. It’s just that they point out and say things about Black men the most. I guess it must have something to do with American pop culture-for ex. music.
I HOPE THIS HELPS!!! : )
June 30, 2009 @ 6:12 am
at age 30, you are asking this question?!! you have to be joking?!! does it matter? everyone is different lady. not just black vs. white. asian vs. latino. women vs. men. but black vs. black is different. there are some black people who are tall, short, fat, skinny, light, dark, smart, stupid, successful, losers, etc., etc. what are you expecting to hear here? that ALL black men are good in bed? would you actually believe that? throw your expectations out the door because you could ruin a good thing expecting a black man to have a long penis and be the best lover ever. if you ever have the opportunity to have sex with a black man, approach it as if you are having sex with a MAN, not a BLACK MAN!!
June 30, 2009 @ 6:12 am
In my experience black men are generally more attentive, but not all of them. It really depends on the guy. I mean I have been with white guys who are just as good as some black guys, but the best I ever had was biracial.
June 30, 2009 @ 6:12 am
It’s called a stereotype. If you are in your mid 30s then you need to grow up right now. Mostly teens I find believe in that bull crap. From the way you talk, it seems to me that the mentality of your mind is not at the age of mid 30s yet.
June 30, 2009 @ 6:12 am
When there is love the sex is good almost all the time
)) it’s not important white, black ,asian etc but the feelings are always important.
June 30, 2009 @ 6:12 am
Hype Anonymous sex is always exotic, much speculation and rumor on the subject. But I think it all depends on the individual.
June 30, 2009 @ 6:12 am
Dont believe the hype! If you’re feeling adventurous, you can try it for yourself. ;-P
June 30, 2009 @ 6:12 am
My boyfriend is black and OMDFDOFDMF HIS SEX IS EFFFFFING AMAZING!!!! WAY WAY WAY WAY WAYYY better then any other races!!! God daaaammnn haha sorry i get very worked up over black men. <3
June 30, 2009 @ 6:12 am
Yeah they are great at sex but no so much the raising the baby, sticking around, staying out of jail part
June 30, 2009 @ 6:12 am
no its not that different…He wasn’t all that experienced yet.
June 30, 2009 @ 6:12 am
Hype, each person is different
June 30, 2009 @ 6:12 am
you will find great sex in many races ,one is not better then other
June 30, 2009 @ 6:12 am
they have bigger penises than white men
trust me its no hype
June 30, 2009 @ 6:12 am
i been around lol,i have to go with cuban’s but not the black ones !!!
June 30, 2009 @ 6:12 am
i think its a hype
June 30, 2009 @ 6:12 am
I wonder how many of these women answering this question have actually slept with a Black man, a White man, an Asian man and a Latino man and could tell based on EXPERIENCE and not just guessing. Really, you speak about this topic, you speak on one of the most controversial topics in American culture today.
If anything, there is simply a different cultural perspective on sex. I think we Black men are more open when it comes to sex. Then again, I ain’t never had sex with men (nor ever will), so I can’t judge…but I think it boils down to the individual when it comes to technique.
I will say this, though…we Black men DO pride ourselves openly and compete with each other on the ability to “G” a girl.
June 30, 2009 @ 6:12 am
it sounds ******* GROSS and wrong….. white guys are better!!!
just try different positions