How Can You Keep Your Sex Life Active With Your Spouse?
5yrs and it slow down big time compare to when we got married. Is this normal? We’re not cheating on each other I mean we’re happy but I notice that sex is not a top priority in our life but how can i make it a top one without sounding like a desperate husband.
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July 3, 2009 @ 5:00 pm
This will sound weird…. but to keep our sex life interesting….we dont have sex!!
We have been together 6 years…. we met in a grocery store, and it turned out we lived in the same apartment building! we both wanted each other immediately! but me, being the typical girl, wanted to wait…just a little…. but i also wanted to have sex right away!
I told him i didn’t think it would be a good idea to have sex right away, but asked him to spend the night anyway! he did…. and it was amazing. we spent the first 3 months sleeping together without any sex! sounds crazy, but we had the best time….we spent our nights doing everything but intercourse…. both of us struggling to wait to the perfect moment! it drove us both nuts…
now every year, around our anniversary, we dont have sex for at least a month! we both want to…….anyway, it sounds crazy… but we just want eachother all the more when we cant have eachother……
July 3, 2009 @ 5:00 pm
Yes it does slow down a bit but:
Flirt with her, tell her about all the wonderful things she does for you in and out of the bedroom and all her best attributes. Offer to do things for her like housework, going on quick trips to the store, give her breaks now and then. All those things can help make her realize how much she means to you and make her fell appreciated, it seems silly in some ways but women are very in tune to those things, if they don’t receive them they don’t feel very sexy or desired.
Do take her out on more dates, or stay home to a nice dinner you got or prepared for her, romance her a little everyday and it all goes toward the investment of a happy love-life.
July 3, 2009 @ 5:00 pm
Do it when your tired. Do it when your not. Talk dirty. Touch her and kiss her throughout the day as much as you can and then just walk away. Don’t discuss it. Keep her interested.
July 3, 2009 @ 5:00 pm
After 34 years we have an active sex life, but it takes work. Have date night once a month. Dress up, go on a date. Try a motel now and then. We know a motel with theme rooms. Use your imagination.
July 3, 2009 @ 5:00 pm
Have fun, I have been with my spouse for 10 years, and sometimes I don’t want to bothered, but it helps to have fun in the bedroom. Buy toys, movies, change it up.