Breakup :’(?
I’m going through an horrible breakup, and I feel like I’m never going to get over it. I’m crying most of the time and feel like trash. What do you do to handle a situation like this? I know time heals everything, but right now I need to feel better about this.
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Tags: Breakup, Time, time heals everything, trash, yahoo answers
July 21, 2009 @ 7:53 am
i felt the same exact way after my breakup but after while i got over it because i believe that everything happens for a reason and if this happened, then something better will happen for you soon enough. you might think now that you won’t get over losing him, but (i read this in a book once, and i LOVED it) you have to start loving yourself as a whole person and not half a couple. it’s great to look back on old memories of you two together but you have to let it go and move on. try hanging out with friends and joining different activities to keep your mind off of him and in no time you’ll feel a lot better
BEST OF LUCK!!
July 21, 2009 @ 8:48 am
Hang out with your friends, have good times, talk to people. Don’t communicate with your ex. Be patient and your pain will go away slowly but surely.
July 21, 2009 @ 9:12 am
listen to taylor swifts just another picture to burn!
this is my 26 yr old neices theme song now! she said it helped her to get over a guy who had broken up with her and was again trying to toy with her emotions! , and she did burn the jerks pic! and now she has moved on to a great relationship with someone who loves her!!!!!!!
July 21, 2009 @ 10:07 am
There is always going to be pain, honey. And the truth is time will heal it. You just need to be patient. Right now all you need is something that makes you feel confident and good about yourself. Find something that makes you feel yourself, totally human. For some people it’s running, for others it’s vegging in front of the TV with their favorite moves.
Just find something or someone to talk to or veg out with.
Good luck. I know it’s hard and you’ll get over it. There are more out there~
July 21, 2009 @ 10:12 am
Im going throw a horrible breakup of a year and a half relationship right now we just broke up a week ago and i doing throw what you are right now. You should just get out and hang with your friends and family go shopping keep your self bust and you mind off you ex is what im doing. Im sorry about you breakup and i hope you get over it good luck. GUYS ARE SO NOT WORTH IT!!!!!!
July 21, 2009 @ 10:30 am
I would say try to keep your mind off of it by doing things you like to do. Make sure you surround yourself with people who love you and make you happy. Remember, you deserve to be happy and sometimes it just takes a little time. Crying is ok, but make sure you get some fun in your days too.
July 21, 2009 @ 10:52 am
i don’t have a cure. i’m going through messy break up too. the problem is that i have to see him everyday. we go to school together, and actually live on the same street. the thing that helped me with some of my anger( not my hurt) was to write down exactly how i was feeling. no one was going to read it so i let it all out. i still haven’t had a good cry though. don’t you hate those words ( time will heal) i don’t want time i want to feel better now!! time goes by extremely slowly. i sleep all day and cry all night, sound about right? i feel lazy and trashy and ugh. i’m sorry.
July 21, 2009 @ 11:07 am
go out with ur friends get a part time job and time will definitely go faster than right now